This is a plea to those of you who read our blog and who have adopted from Ukraine. On Friday Feb. 3rd the JCICS issued a press release stating that the Ukrainian government will likely suspend all adoptions by American citizens until ALL post placement reports have been completed. There are nearly 900 post placement reports that have not been completed by adoptive parents since 1996.
When you adopted your child from Ukraine you made a commitment to furnish these reports to the Ukrainian government. The actions of these families is having repercussions on waiting families. Think back to the time when you were waiting. Remember the stress and anguish? That is what is happening to families now.
Children deserve loving homes. There are families waiting right now to take these children home. If you or someone you know has not filed their post placement reports please take a moment to do so. This goes for any of you who have adopted from any other country. It does not take that much time. Please.
There have been posts on FRUA lately complaining about little things an agency is requiring someone to do post-placement. I refrained, but I just shout "Shut up and do it!"
I read about a woman who turned her pp reports in to her agency at 6 mos, 1 year, and 18 months. Just a few weeks after her 18 month report, the agency wrote them a letter saying that she had not sent in her pp reports! Luckily she had kept copies and sent them again.
I feel like the agencies could be held responsible for their clients reports - not punish all American pre-adoptive parents blindly.
I am so sorry, Lisa! I am sending all of my wishes to your family (and Margaret and Rhonda) that those reaccreditations finally come through. Please don't let the pp reports affect waiting families. :(
To be honest, I tend to think they are using it as a scapgoat. But then I'm suspicious. I have also heard more than one story of people who send the reports and they never are received. I also send pics to my facilitators to take to the babyhome. But thats not the same. You never do know for sure if they get there.
Hope things start moving for you guys.
Serena